The insanely attractive Dr. Lucy Worsley
One thing I've learned as I've grown older is that the defintion of "attractive" has changed drastically. When we're young, appearance is paramount to choosing our mates. What we don't understand in those early years is that appearance is temporary. Beauty is but a flash in the pan (bonus points if you know where that phrase originated) and fades rapidly as age increases. Time will have its way with every single one of us regardless of how good plastic surgery is. Sure, you can delay the aging process, but when you reach retirement age, that prior plastic surgery will make you look like a circus freak. So why bother? Plastic surgery certainly has its place when it comes to helping burn victims, those with birth defects and such. But why waste the time and money simply to defer what is going to happen anyway? There is, however a more important thing to consider. Have you noticed what I've left out?
A relationship based on appearance alone is doomed to failure. I guarantee it. If you and your mate progress into the years where your appearance starts to fade, what do you have as a basis for your relationship? Do you have common interests? Are you able to have an intelligent conversation? If you have neither, you're fucked. You may as well start looking for a good divorce lawyer right now. You don't necessarily need to have the exact same interests but you should be able to understand and appreciate your mate's passions. You should be able to patiently listen as your mate talks about the miniscule things that get them excited. Even if you don't understand what your mate is saying, you should, at least, acknowledge their passion for the subject. Whatever they're talking about is important to them and you should acknowledge it.
As an example I present Dr. Lucy Worsley. She's smart, she's beautiful and that makes her, to me, insanely attractive. She knows her subject matter inside-out and backwards. I think that's hot. She's the kind of woman I would love to converse with. I may not be able to comprehend the subject matter, but I would most certainly be able to understand her passion for it. She's the kind of woman I would want to spend the rest of my life with. The best part is that things would work just fine the other way 'round. She might have to listen to me as I blather on about the advantages of an N14 engine over an ISX engine.
A person's appearance is our first attraction but it's only temporary. People need to understand that fact or they're doomed to failure.